First Meeting Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Married

As we know the divorce cases in India and other countries across the globe is no doubt increasing day by day. The main reason of increasing in divorce cases is only the misunderstanding between the husband and wife. Couples get married even before knowing each other properly. That's why I want to discuss the essentiality and importance of pre-marriage questions which will be helpful for you to make a perfect and successful decision. I do hope those questions will help you in the future.

First Meeting Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Married

About The Marriage Decision

Fist ask your soulmate that she or he is comfortable with the decision of marriage you have taken. Try to find out if she or he has any other opinion about it. Find out the reason for him or her to take this decision. I know this question may sound funny but still to take this major decision this is a relevant question to ask.


About Likes & Dislikes

Ask about the likes & dislikes of your partner because the main reason of increasing the misunderstandings between the husband and wife is only the nature of life partners.

Financial Stability

It is very important question to discuss about the financial priorities and spending habits of your potential mate but most of the people beleive that it is a good question to ask before marriage. Ask your "would-be" spouse, if he/she is the one who believes in saving for the future.


Religion and Beliefs

If both of you belong to different religion or belief system, you have to talk about it. This will help you to understand your partner better. Be honest and open, about religious beliefs and levels of involvement. You can also ask about their political views and opinion on cultural changes. You should respect your partner’s traditions and make sure that he/she respects yours, too. If you don’t discuss these things before marriage, you may have problems later.

About Future Life And Children

You must ask your partner a few important questions on children such as ‘if she or he wants to have children or not? ‘. If having children is an integral part of your future life plan, then your partner is also supposed to feel the same way. You shouldn’t give up your wishes for your partner. If you never asked these questions before marriage, you may face problems in the future life, if your partner is not comfortable with your ideas about the family.